My daughter told me that yesterday as I was preparing her for bed. “Wha..” I thought to myself. “Where in the world did that come from? Then I remembered Chuck E. Cheese I took her this past weekend, and she had one of the little boys hooked. He played games with her paying with his tokens, and he showed her how to play games she wasn’t used to. After a while she became overwhelmed with all that attention. Attention she gets from mommy and came over to me for safety. No amount of convincing on the boy’s part would get her to part with mommy.
I guess she thought he was being “overbearing”. This morning, (yes my daughter was already awake a little before 5:00) although now she has gone back to sleep we talked about “boys” like her granddaddy, her uncles, and her brand-new cousin (all boys) we even talked about one of her friend who is a boy. He’s very nice to her. Now she thinks boys are “nice”.
I also told her how I was plagued with boys bothering me as a young girl. My first experience was at four. I still remember the boy tall, blond, green eyes, and he was five years old. One year older than me. He was the new kid in the neighborhood and he decided he liked me. I didn’t return the favor I had already pledged my affection to my loyalty to my Phillipino playmate. I still remember what he looks like also.
Anyway this little snot would try to pinch me if I did not sit by him in reading circle. I remember my heart sinking down into my toes when I walked into the library, and I saw him! He eagerly patted the space beside him, and I turned my head and sat by someone I didn’t know. How’s that for daring? “Humph, I thought, Why in the world do I want to sit by someone who’s so mean to me!”, I remember he pushed me off my inchworm when I did not kiss him. I couldn’t stand that kid! Thankfully we moved soon afterwards so I didn’t have to be bothered with him again although I missed my three year old buddy. ;-)
Question: As a child which one was you were you the type that lavished all the unwanted attention on someone or were you on the receiving end?
[tags]children, Chuck E. Cheese, crush[/tags]