So when is my grandaddy going to be my dad?
Aiyana asked me this a few moments ago. Up until this time I haven’t talked too much about J. That was my fiancee her father He was killed in a car accident when I was seven weeks pregnant. I chose to wait until she started asking questions. I guess it’s time to start talking about him, eh?

on May 2nd, 2007 at 8:18 pm
Stuff like this is so hard, and I’m sorry for your loss. It must have been such a hard time - the excitement and ups and downs of pregnancy coupled with losing a part of you. You are very strong to have come through so well :)
Kevin’s dad dies when he was 3, so he doesn’t remember him. My mil was two or three months along with Kevin’s little sister when he passed away. She sadi when the kids were little they go confused a lot on who daddy was. She just kept answering questions as they arose, and eventually the kids had it all figured out.
on May 3rd, 2007 at 11:11 am
Liesl,
It was tough but I got through it. I have a very supportive family.
My mothers mother died when she was three years old.